If you haven't seen it, go see it. I'll wait here for you to get back. be sure to turn up the bass in your sound system.
ok, now that we're all caught up, what would be your totem? far as I remember, the rules are that it has to be something small that only you are familiar with. the look, the weight, the feel, whatever. it cannot be duplicated by a dream architect to trick you into thinking you're dreaming or not dreaming or however those weird rules work.
mine would undoubtedly have to be my little leathermen. it is on my hip near all my waking hours (for years now... so long I don't really remember not having it) and is used and abused and no longer like any other leathermen. only I know how much effort the various tools need to swing out. only I know the various damages done to them. plus then I'd have an extra tool with me in any dream sequence.