Yep.
I will simplify what I want to know then...
What axles should I got with front end and rear end to handle 35's, 300 hp, and abuse?
D30 front openD44, 8.8, 29 spline 8.25. Locker if you choose.
That's all you need. You'll be fine. Everybody wants to go big in the beginning. It's foolish. Put 3" of lift in the truck, cut fenders, run a wheel with 3.5" to 3.75BS and enjoy it. With a 6 cylinder, 4.56 or 4.88 will be good but you could live with 3.55s.
That is my recommendation for 35 inch tires. And always will be. I have run that combo more then once successfully on dedicated trail rigs and streetable jeeps.
But if it's a decent truck, buy a XJ to cut up.