if i may!!
the modernization of our culture has taken us away from the small village, extended family concept. the respecting of the elders of the tribe, clan etc, this experience has left the different cultures with, ( the i can do it myself ), attitude.
this forum provides a place to return to the extended family concept.
if someone gives bad advice, believe me, someone or many, will CORRECT the mistake.
if you choose to forgo our advice, then its on your head.
a side note, i'm very careful who i buy from!!!!
dave