I can confirm that the money has been refunded.
While I'm sorry to hear about your health, this is where just a little bit of communication goes such a long way. If a tracking number had been given when the package was shipped one could simply watch it instead of jumping to conclusions. It has been three weeks since any communication between us has happened and it was spotty messages every week to week and a half that I heard anything back from you before that. PMs, emails, and messages through PayPal were not being answered. To me, that's a red flag. I find it hard to believe that the minute that it'd take to send an email explaining the situation couldn't be found. For how much important information that gets passed around electronically these days the smart thing to do in the future would be to at least have someone check on things for you. Not necessarily reading through everything, but if it's found that you're getting similar messages through multiple sources then that should be a red flag on your part as well. I understand that health takes importance over everything as I struggle with all sorts of issues myself, but I'm not sure that someone could say that this was totally out of your control.
As for the name calling and potential letters to family, I can't say that I'm not partially to blame as I started this thread after all. None of the communications directly from me to you were ever intended to be hurtful however I cannot control the actions of others. If what you're saying is true, then on behalf of myself and from Comanche Club I do apologize. While I don't like how things turned out, I also think this is a learning experience for everyone. It cannot be said enough that a little communication goes such a long way.