I found a XJ in Atlanta that I knew I wanted and was going to buy.
Called seller, told him I was coming and would be there in the afternoon, got addy.
Got a buddy to ride with me.
Drove from Knoxville to Chattanooga.
Called seller from Chattanooga to reaffirm.
Seller told me he sold it 10 minutes ago.
No, it's not a CL thing, it's a people thing.
When you give your word......KEEP IT!. Most people are not worth the piss and shit they are made of.
Sorry, it happens to all of us. Yes, seller should have given you a courtesy call, at the very least.