My brother agrees with you. I don't.
At my brother's suggestion, I put a set of KYB Gas-Adjusts on my '88 XJ when it first needed shocks. They were horrible. No control over large bumps and dips, yet extremely harse of small bumps and pavement cracks. I threw them away after less than three months and went to Monroe. More recently, the 2001 XJ I bought (used) for my daughter had KYBs on the front. No difference -- they were about the worst shocks you could imagine.
I know KYBs seem to have a following, but IMHO they suck. If you can't afford OME, just buy Monroe.
Maybe they've changed then since I used them.