You can slide the relay blocks back or forth to dislodge them and place them in any order you want. Makes me think somebody was doing something at one time.
Need two (2) more voltage tests. Use the Diagnostic Connector (should have yellow covers on them). Ground DVOM at the battery terminal.
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D2-4 & D2-9. Looking for B+ voltage.
At the Starter Relay remove the "I" terminal (should be the GRN wire) and jumper B+ to the terminal on the Relay. Starter should engage, beware of vehicle in gear.
What a shame when good intentions (gasket) turn into nighmares. I don't like your story about "bad clunking sound" and "broken ear" on the distributor. Possible over tightening of the hold down bolt. You say you have spark, try a little gas down the throttle and see if vehicle attempts to START.
More air, more fuel. O2S will always attempt to maintain a 14.7:1 air/fuel ratio, within its range of authority, otherwise ECU goes into open loop. High idle is vacuum leak or TPS adjustment.