350MJ Posted August 19, 2014 Share Posted August 19, 2014 So I know a car sight is probably not the best place to ask but I have a feeling that you guys could probably help me a bit. I have a lovely girlfriend, great girl, care for her dearly. Her brother was one of my best friends in high school. He hates me now, understandable. I was ok with this for a while. Yesterday he crossed the line, not going into it. How do I effectively get across to him that if he doesn't drop his childishness that I'll knock him into the middle of next week. P.s. He's the only one in his family that feels this way, his folks love me, his sisters adore me, even his girlfriend secretly sides with me but is too afraid to tell that little squeak pig. Thanks in advance brothers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yxmj Posted August 19, 2014 Share Posted August 19, 2014 Give up .....your done.....the fact that you posted this question on this site.....and called it a "CAR" site shows she can ....and will..... do better than you.....leave her alone ..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
350MJ Posted August 19, 2014 Author Share Posted August 19, 2014 Yes I said car get over it. That's what a comanche is a car, an automobile, a truck, a mode of transportation any and all. Not the time to test me brother. My patience is already worn rather thin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shipp_m Posted August 19, 2014 Share Posted August 19, 2014 :dunno: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yxmj Posted August 19, 2014 Share Posted August 19, 2014 Not your Brother Call 911 and turn yourself in....your messed up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minuit Posted August 19, 2014 Share Posted August 19, 2014 Guys, somehow I don't think being pedantic is going to help his problems. :hmm: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shipp_m Posted August 19, 2014 Share Posted August 19, 2014 yxmj posted all in fun. as a joke... thats why comanche club is comanche club! we all have a good sense of humor. you can't come on here and post for advice and then immediatly turn into a J/A. we understand your upset and frustrated and we are all more then willing to offer you advice take the constructive criticism and have fun with it. as for advice your what 18-19 y/o? so that means your buddy is probably the same age right? so of course you immediatly want to resort to violance. first of all how much do you care for this girl? is she just a high school fling or is she something serious and someone you can see your self settling down with? find out what the true reasoning is behind it. if she is just a piece of pie then let it go. if you truelly love her then talk with this guy like adults. don't get hot headed and freak out on him. talk it through shake hands and continue on with your lives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lime Posted August 19, 2014 Share Posted August 19, 2014 I have it in good authority that girls don't like men acting like they own them (unless they have mental issues and like being fought over for the attention). The fact that the brother is possessive is hugely unimpressive. How about instead of threatening him, remind him that your girlfriend is an autonomous human being with a brain who can be in whatever relationship she wants. This is why single ladies in bars will say they have a boyfriend even if they don't, because her saying no isn't enough, but a man will respect the other man and not cross that boundary, even if he isn't present. I think she should be the one knocking her brother into next week. Maybe just verbally, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spectormj Posted August 19, 2014 Share Posted August 19, 2014 What lime said Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagle Posted August 20, 2014 Share Posted August 20, 2014 I have a lovely girlfriend, great girl, care for her dearly. Her brother was one of my best friends in high school. He hates me now, understandable. I was ok with this for a while. Yesterday he crossed the line, not going into it. Issue number one. You're here asking for advice, but you're not telling us anywhere near the whole story. Such as: How old are you? How old is this brother-of-girlfriend? How old is the girlfriend? Most important, since you wrote that it's "understandable" that he now hates you -- WHY? What did you do to him to turn him against you? And how did he cross the line yesterday? Asking for help and then copping out with "Not going into it" is not conducive to getting solid advice. How do I effectively get across to him that if he doesn't drop his childishness that I'll knock him into the middle of next week. You don't. Somehow, even if his parents and sisters agree with your side of whatever the conflict is about, physical assault is never a solution, is almost guaranteed to turn the rest of the family against you, and ... pay attention ... is a felony offense in every state. If you need anger management classes, sign up for them now, before a judge orders you to attend them. P.S. A Comanche is not a "car." Get over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimoshel Posted August 20, 2014 Share Posted August 20, 2014 Call 473-2211. Ask for Linda. $50 for half an hour or $250 for all night. By the way. 'sight' refers to vision. 'Site refers to a location. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yxmj Posted August 20, 2014 Share Posted August 20, 2014 Call 473-2211. Ask for Linda. $50 for half an hour or $250 for all night. By the way. 'sight' refers to vision. 'Site refers to a location. I need the area code......... :yes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jargon Posted August 20, 2014 Share Posted August 20, 2014 Thanks for the new desktop background :thumbsup: Also, I have to agree: more info would be helpful before anyone can give meaningful advice. Otherwise, Lime and Eagle said it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyav8r Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 Just go ahead and beat the crap out of him. That will effectively solve the problem by putting everyone in the GF's family on his side. The up side is that you may develop a new relationship while you're in the jail/prison - whether you want one or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ParadiseMJ Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Your friend is jealous AND probably feels like you used your friendship with HIM to get into his sister's pants. Who knows, he may have a thing for his own sister...stranger things have happened. If she's under 18, he may be protective of ANY guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
COFFMAN Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Just go ahead and beat the crap out of him. That will effectively solve the problem by putting everyone in the GF's family on his side. The up side is that you may develop a new relationship while you're in the jail/prison - whether you want one or not. Thats funny ..... :thumbsup: A picture would also help to see if she's worth doing time over... or me jumping on a plane lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ParadiseMJ Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Here's what I tell my boys: Women will come and go in your life. Don't wrap everything up in the "flavor of the month". When you find someone WORTH fighting for you won't be put off by a brother, sister, mother OR EVEN a father. That is IF she's worth it...take a look at her mother...that's what she'll look like in 20 years. :eek: P.S. Most of the time all you need to worry about the father/mother. Tell your friend to bugger off. :banana: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yxmj Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Just go ahead and beat the crap out of him. That will effectively solve the problem by putting everyone in the GF's family on his side. The up side is that you may develop a new relationship while you're in the jail/prison - whether you want one or not. Thats funny ..... :thumbsup: A picture would also help to see if she's worth doing time over... or me jumping on a plane lol That is slick down under.....send me a pic of your girlfriend and i will tell you if she is worth it.....crude....but slick :thumbsup: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SW86 Posted August 24, 2014 Share Posted August 24, 2014 It's simple. Either A. Act like he doesn't exist. Which can be very fun. Or B. stop giving a @#$%. If she's what you want, just tell the piss ant right up front how you feel... All of it. Starting from high school to now. If you guys were friends, wait, real friends, you should be able to talk it over. In the end, I wouldn't care either way and this wouldn't even be an issue in my mind. I've got the girl, her folks like me, end of story... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
COFFMAN Posted August 24, 2014 Share Posted August 24, 2014 Just go ahead and beat the crap out of him. That will effectively solve the problem by putting everyone in the GF's family on his side. The up side is that you may develop a new relationship while you're in the jail/prison - whether you want one or not. Thats funny ..... :thumbsup: A picture would also help to see if she's worth doing time over... or me jumping on a plane lol That is slick down under.....send me a pic of your girlfriend and i will tell you if she is worth it.....crude....but slick :thumbsup: Hey man i don't have a problem with my girl friend, it's my mistress that gives me drama's :thumbsup: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xjrev10 Posted August 24, 2014 Share Posted August 24, 2014 :worthless: For whatever reason I can't get the emoticons to work on my iPad. "This thread is worthless w/o pics." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minuit Posted August 24, 2014 Share Posted August 24, 2014 The correct code is " : needpics :" :needpics: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yxmj Posted August 24, 2014 Share Posted August 24, 2014 You guys are tough do you want pics of ......him.....the brother.....the family.....or his MJ ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeepcoMJ Posted August 24, 2014 Share Posted August 24, 2014 He isn't a real friend to you, and vice versa. Reality is, he knows you well, and to him, you aren't good enough for her. Not that that is the truth, but it is to him. You will never be friends while dating her, and for a long time afterwards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xjrev10 Posted August 25, 2014 Share Posted August 25, 2014 You guys are tough do you want pics of ......him.....the brother.....the family.....or his MJ ? Ummm. His MJ of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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