More progress, we're narrowing all the issues down, two things that happened after we got the new distributor in. 1, Jeep kept dying over night, found alternator is bad so thats a known issue I haven't changed out yet but we had it running and took it for a drive around. 2, coil is not constantly firing on start up. If you bump the key over and watch it with a light it will flicker twice and then not fire. If you wiggle the key around a bit and then try it every other time it might fire, it might not. I just replaced the coil and coil driver so both are new. We're thinking it's the ignition switch. Just like the coil firing, sometimes you'll hear the fuel pump go off, some times it won't. We're really thinking the ignition switch isn't providing the 12v to turn on the coil and fuel pump.
Also, If you do get it started and put it into gear, it usually stalls out unless you give it gas while changing into gear