So the reason the starter was not engaging when the key was turned is because the wire was not plugged into the fuse block.......so now we have spark, fire, but still NO fuel...... the fuel pump will not come on when the key is turned. my brother in law crawled under tied into the wires and hooked it to the battery and the fuel pump comes on and we get fuel pressure at the rail but only if we hook the pump directly to the pump. so there is something wrong now.... i went to the junk yard and picked up a new computer and it didnt do anything.....